What kind of touch feels best on your breasts? Have you noticed that sometimes very light touch can feel amazing, and other times you crave really deep and intense sensation? The sensitivity and pleasures of the breast can change over night, or within a single lovemaking session. Sometimes partners struggle with touching the breasts- fumbling, pinching too hard too soon, never getting it quite right. Many women report excluding the breasts all together from their sexual play, or getting very little pleasure from it. And yet, it can be so wonderfully intimate and arousing to have your lover’s hands and mouth lavishing your breasts with pleasure! As part of foreplay, lovemaking or sensual massage, breast massage can be a delicious part of our sexual experience. So how can we better guide our partners in gaining skills and confidence in touching our breasts, so that each and every touch is pleasurable?
SensualBreastMassage.com delivers a flash video guide to pleasurable breast massage. You and your partner can learn over twenty different ways to touch the entire female chest, breast and nipple. From gentle warm-up strokes to highly arousing sensation play, these massage techniques all evoke different sensations in the sensitive tissues of the breasts. By exploring these techniques, you can experiment with a range of sensations and discover all of your own favorites. Your partner will begin to pay attention to your responses, noticing when something feels especially good and moving on if something isn’t working. Over time, both you and your partner will be able to enjoy a variety of ways to include your breasts in your lovemaking, adding new dimensions of pleasure and intimacy to your relationship.
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Expand Your Range of Pressure
Some of the most effective sex techniques are the simplest. If you want to have better sex, start by paying attention to how you are touching your lover. Learning sensual massage skills is a quick way to become a better lover.
One key technique of sensual massage is understanding and using a wider range of pressure and speed in your erotic touch. While giving your lover an erotic massage, slow your touch way down and begin exploring the quality of depth in the touch you are offering. This works very well when exploring sensual breast massage. Is it a light touch gliding on the surface of the skin? Or a deeper touch, into the muscles? Can you feel the edges of the bones? Explore your lover’s body beneath the skin, and you may discover that by relaxing muscular tension there is access to way more pleasure. Become your lover’s masseur, and she will thank you, and perhaps even return the favor!
While exploring deeper touch, don’t be afraid to ask for feedback on how it feels for her. Or, play a simple game- tell her you are going to slowly increase pressure, and when it feels “just right” ask her to tell you or signal in some way. There are several scales that you can use to communicate about pleasure. Try having her rate each touch on a scale of one to ten. Or, try cold, warm and hot, or red, yellow and green. Whatever system you use to communicate, these explorations can provide valuable lessons in your lovemaking. Giving her the chance to ask for exactly what she wants, and acknowledging that this will change over time, says that you are a generous lover who genuinely wants to pleasure your partner. Of course, these games can work on any part of the body, so perhaps you will get the chance to ask for what you want as well. Try using this new sex skill while receiving a prostate massage. But practice first while offering your female lover a breast massage, and you’ll surely discover that with by using a range of pressures and communicating about what feels best, you’ll gain new sex techniques and the confidence to use them.